Iretiola Doyle |
She said, “In Nigeria, as in almost
everywhere in the world, I do not think that rape cases are handled
properly often times. What makes it worse for us in Nigeria is that in
advanced countries, they have strict laws and most times, the law is
enforced and justice is done. In Nigeria, we have laws in place but are
they enforced as they should be? I don’t think so. But I am happy that
there is a lot more conversation about it. People tend to think that
rape is on the increase but I don’t think so; I think it has always been
a part of our society but you are hearing a lot more about it now
because people are talking about it. That veil of secrecy has been
removed and the more we talk about it, the more we blow the whistle
against the offenders. Eventually I think we would get it right. We need
to put stronger laws in place and enforce them and justice must be
done.
“When you hear about a law that
castrates rapists, you may think it is extreme but when you think of the
ripple effect, the damage that rape causes not just to the victims but
people around them, you might want to rethink. I think that the
punishment should be hard especially for repeat offenders. Maybe if you
are a first time offender, the law might give you room for
rehabilitation but if you are a repeated offender, they should cut off
your manhood.”
Regarded as one of the few actresses to
be blessed with ageless beauty and grace, the star actress shared some
of her beauty secrets with Saturday Beats and one of them is that she has learnt the art of ignoring people.
Doyle said, “I look this youthful due to
the grace of God. Like I always say, to look youthful, you have to rid
yourself of negative energy – be it people, situations or circumstances.
Whatever you cannot control; let it go. I shut out negative comments by
simply disregarding them. Although it sounds easier said than done but I
am middle aged and I have learnt the art of ignoring people. I cannot
help anyone who has a misconception about me. The onus is on the person
to come closer and try to discern whether I am a snub or not.
Thankfully, the few people that have had the opportunity to come closer
see that there is much more to this very cold outer look. I am too old
to start trying to please everybody. I can’t please everyone; all I can
do is to be myself.
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